Skip to content
MarketScale
ContributorsTroy Ashby
Troy Ashby photo

President, Benchmark Search · Benchmark Search

Troy Ashby

Troy Ashby is President at Benchmark Search and host of Beyond the Ledger, where he talks with the leaders, innovators, and professionals shaping accounting and finance.

23 articlesLinkedIn ↗
Contributor Brief·Troy Ashby · 23 articles
Updated Jul 8, 2026

Relationships and intention matter more than titles or perfect timing

Ashby argues that career success is built on intentional relationship-building and continuous self-investment rather than chasing promotions or waiting for ideal circumstances. He contends that proximity, vulnerability, and the courage to say yes—combined with deep professional networks—are the structural advantages that separate stalled careers from sustained growth, even after setbacks like layoffs or relocations.

39%

of workers' core skills must evolve by 2030

Relationships have become more than a soft skill — they are a career advantage.

How Relationships Build a Career, Deepen Service and Define Purpose

Career advancement drivers ranked by strategic importance

Intentional relationship-building and proximity10
Cross-functional stretch work (spiral growth)9
Continuous self-investment and skill evolution9
Seeking feedback and mentorship after promotion8
Individualized leadership tailored to team members8
Title and compensation pursuit3

SHARE

21%Intentional relationship-building
Intentional relationship-building and proximity
Cross-functional stretch work (spiral growth)
Continuous self-investment and skill evolution
Seeking feedback and mentorship after promotion
+2 more

<4 years

average job tenure for U.S. workers

Fair does not mean identical: individualized leadership builds trust and lifts team performance.

Why Treating Everyone the Same Is Hurting Your Team

Newly promoted leaders are expected to deliver impact from the outset, often without space to fully adjust.

How to Succeed After Getting Promoted: Seeking Feedback, Acting with Intention, and Leading with Perspective

Stop chasing titles. Great work, mentorship, and curiosity build more rewarding careers.

Themes:Relationships as structural career advantageIntentional self-investment over title-chasingSpiral growth and cross-functional mastery

What is MarketScale

These experts publish through MarketScale, a content platform that turns industry knowledge into articles, video, and audience. Want the same for your team?