Beyond “How Are You?”: Creating Meaningful Connection That Fuels Professional Growth

 

What happens when we stop asking surface-level questions and start having conversations that actually matter? Everyday greetings like “How are you?” often miss the chance to spark a genuine and meaningful connection. Research suggests that authentic connection boosts employee engagement and retention, with studies showing that employees who feel recognized and genuinely valued are up to seven times more likely to be engaged and far less likely to leave their organizations.

How can professionals move beyond routine pleasantries to build trust, strengthen relationships, and expand their professional equity?

On this episode of Professional Quotient, Jason Winningham speaks with Alexandria Skeete. She is a culture strategist and the author of Beyond ‘How Are You’? Mastering the Art of Meaningful Greetings, recognized for championing authentic communication. Alexandria opens up about how a career transition and a moment of personal pause led her to write a book that’s helping people rethink everyday interactions. Her approach invites professionals to move past small talk and focus on creating a meaningful connection in every interaction.

She shares:

  • How to move from autopilot small talk to intentional conversation.

  • What it’s really like to self-promote as an author.

  • The physical and mental habits that help her reset after the 9-to-5.

  • Why community and curiosity are her greatest forms of professional equity.

Alexandria Skeete is a senior manager of organizational development and culture strategy and the author of Beyond How Are You? Mastering the Art of Meaningful Greetings. She blends her expertise in culture strategy with her passion for writing, helping professionals and aspiring authors foster authentic connections and share their stories.

This episode is full of encouragement for anyone navigating career pivots, creative callings, or simply looking to show up with more purpose.

Listen now and get inspired to lead with presence and go beyond “How are you?”

Recent Episodes

Career paths aren’t always linear. Many professionals find themselves navigating shifts between industries and roles, discovering that success often comes down to setting boundaries, balancing responsibilities, and leaning on core strengths. So, what does it look like to build professional equity not by chasing titles, but by leaning into what you do best? How…

From ransomware attacks to AI-driven phishing schemes, today’s cyber threats are evolving faster than most organizations can defend against—making cybersecurity expertise one of the most urgent skills of the decade. Global cybercrime costs are expected to climb to $1.2 trillion annually by the end of this year, underscoring the stakes for organizations that must…

Leadership has never been more complex—or more critical—than it is today. As businesses face global shifts in workforce expectations, cultural awareness, and communication styles, leaders must find ways to operate with authenticity and integrity across borders. In Deloitte’s Global Human Capital Trends report, 94 percent of surveyed business and HR leaders say that leadership capabilities…